is it kind?

There's an Arab proverb that says the mouth should have 3 gatekeepers  -  Is it true?  Is it kind?   Is it necessary?

Akemi thinks yes, she agrees with this proverb.  It would make life bearable.  Everyone can do with a little more kindness.

Akemi's thoughts wander towards someone she knows, one who could easily spew out not very kind, not very necessary 'truths' (according to their perception).  Whenever any of it comes out from them,  it always catches Akemi by surprise!  So much so that she finds herself equally amused and annoyed by it.

But Akemi would as soon as forget about it too!  In her head, Akemi does not allow dzombies.  Only dzikrs - the remembrance of Allah.  She'd rather really WIN it!

So with her mind insulated, hopefully the 3 gatekeepers - truth, kindness and necessity - will do their job of helping her hold it in.

In shaa Allah.